A vow renewal can be such a happy experience. But there are certainly pitfalls that you better be aware of.
On more than one occasion I arrived to do a vow renewal and discovered that the couple were having marital problems. In the cases I remember, the husband had paid for a vow renewal and the wife refused to participate because she was upset with him. Don't let this happen to you! That man paid for something he didn't receive and ended up worse off than had he not done it at all.
Obviously, relationships cannot be saved or improved simply by planning an event. It is far better to work on your relationship ahead of time to make certain that you are moving towards closer connections before you schedule something like a vow renewal. But as you move your relationship in the right direction, a vow renewal can certainly be a great experience for a happy couple.
I think the most important thing any couple wants to do to improve their relationship is to listen to each other. When you listen, you find out what your spouse really wants and is really interested in. Then as you give to your spouse what it is that they deeply want, it can't help but make them feel all the more endeared to you.
Believe me, I have seen many tearful brides at vow renewals that I have performed over the years because the husband had learned to be sensitive to his wife's needs by listening to her and making her happy.
Probably few things are as exciting a having a vow renewal in Hawaii. Let me recommend to you a company that will likely give you want you want in the way of a value-filled renewal on Maui. Check out the Maui Vow Renewal website. You might also like to take a look at their vow renewal packages page. And they also have a page where they show you what Maui beaches they use the most for their services, which is worth seeing.
Do you have suggestions for the locations of vow renewal? I am planning out a surprise for my parents. Please help me with the suggestion for venue.
ReplyDeleteWe can make suggestions with a little more info from you (i.e. when and where your parents will be on island. Can I suggest that you contact Susan directly as she has the time to give you a lot more information. 1-800-791-7799. Or email her at susan@mauime.com
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